Hi, I'm Tara!

I guide you to align with your true calling and to live out your purpose—your dharma. I'm specifically trained to guide you into your purpose and life alignment.

I help you experience your own transformation.




I'm a girl who loves a great cappuccino alongside the perfect almond croissant. I grew up on the East Coast (hey, New Jersey and Pennsylvania!) before moving to California when I was 10. 

I'm also someone who lost both of her parents to cancer within six months of each other, followed by my sweet 19-year-old fur baby a year later.

I created Losses Become Gains in 2022, and it's my own experience with grief, my education, and mindset that enabled me to find my "why"—my soul's purpose—in life: help others navigate and transform their life, too. 

Meet Tara

Certified Grief Coach. Soul Purpose & Transformational Life Coach. Girl mom-to-be. Grieving daughter.

This means I help you step into and embody your confidence, voice, message, and more. It's a process and a new paradigm that is connected to the heart, intuition, and purpose.

I help you release things that are no longer serving you, and I hold a sacred space for you. My job is to understand where you are on your purpose journey—whether that's just beginning in your awareness or you're aware, but need help embodying it.

I then guide you with powerful tools to help you take the next step towards creating an aligned reality for yourself. I help you find your inner magic and your unique, absolutely beautiful light. 

Together, we tune in, harness it, and use it to move oyu toward creating an aligned reality in all aspects of your life.

Not familiar with a "Soul Purpose (Dharma) Coach"? Curious about what a "Transformational Life Coach" really does? I got you, my friend!

Now, there's just one question: where to start!? That's where I come in, and this is where the fun begins! I meet you where you're at to help determine where you are on your soul purpose and transformation journey, what your goals are, and how we can work together to empower you to life your most beautiful, fulfilled, vibrant life.

My philosophy

I've been where you are. I have felt profound pain, I have felt lost, and I have felt unfulfilled. I know the feeling of, "I think there's more out there for me, but I have no idea where to start". It's all about how to discover and embody a life we love and are proud of.

book a chemistry call

book a chemistry call

Or, email hello@lossesbecomegains.com to get the conversation started!

Or, email hello@lossesbecomegains.com to get the conversation started!

Where are you now, where do you want to be, how would that feel, what’s blocking you?

We work together to take you from simply existing and surviving to living and thriving. All you have to do is give a massive "YES" to the process!

You have countless coaches to choose from, but my "secret sauce" is that I combine my diverse training from both Grief Coaching and Transformational Life Coaching to bring you the most well-rounded, comprehensive, unique coaching experience you could ask for. Whether it's the more "traditional" grief we've endured (i.e. the death of a loved one) or it's a loss of self, identity, a relationship, and more, this type of coaching is perfect for integrating all of it.

Why work with me

When finding the perfect coach, you want someone who has walked this path in their own way, too, right? Someone who knows what it means to be on this journey of self-discovery and self-education. Someone who can appreciate the time, energy, dedication, and process and what this truly takes.

book a call with me

Or, email hello@lossesbecomegains.com to get the conversation started!

Or, email hello@lossesbecomegains.com to get the conversation started!

We may go through life events that require us to take a step back, reassess, and step into our higher self. To release what is no longer serving us and tap into our soul's purpose—our dharma. That is the lens through which I coach to provide you the most appropriate healing, resources, tools, guidance.

I am a deeply empathetic, understanding soul and healer. I pride myself on intentionally listening to my clients with care and compassion, and this active listening goes beyond what you say out loud. It's the "in between the lines" that I pay close attention to, too. Think of me as your "north star". My name does mean "star" in Sanskrit, after all!

I offer a few different ways in which you can work with me, ranging from pay-as-you-go coaching to 3+ month programs.

Learn more about each option and package below!

explore individual sessions

This pay-as-you-go 1:1 coaching session is perfect for those who prefer a more flexible approach to their grief healing journey.

If you're looking for a little accountability, guidance on your journey, and occasional check-ins to support you, this is an ideal offering for you!

Simply choose the session date and time that works best for you to align with your needs and schedule.


The Luce Program includes one month of transformational life coaching sessions (four sessions total). 

This program is a great way to get your feet wet with coaching. It's the perfect option if you have a specific area to focus on for a short time, want to determine if long-term coaching is for you, and to take a step to begin your healing journey.

pay-as-you-go coaching

the Luce program | one month


The Growth Program includes three months of transformational life coaching sessions (12 sessions total).

Stella means "stars" in Italian, and that's exactly what we'll be reaching for here! Three months of hands-on coaching is where you'll begin to transform your life from just "existing" and feeling lost, unsure of where to turn next, to discovering hope, a renewed sense of self, and rediscovery of life after loss.

This level of coaching empowers you to dig deep and get into the root of your grief, and discover how and why it is affecting your ability to move forward.

We use this time to not only help you identify the most crippling parts of your grief and address those, but we begin to look at what discovering true joy, fulfillment, and meaning in life after loss looks like for you in a tangible, action-focused way.

For coaching programs over three months, the best way to do this is to have a chat and talk about exactly what you're looking for, what I can offer you, and see if we're a good fit!

When working with a coach for an extended period of time, I think it's more important than ever to find your perfect fit. I hope I can be that for you!

book a chemistry call

Or, email hello@lossesbecomegains.com to get the conversation started!

the growth program | three months

longer term coaching programs