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My purpose, my "why" in life, is to be a healer of the heart, mind, and soul—particularly those who are journeying through grief.

That's why I offer both Grief Coaching and Soul Purpose Coaching (along with the Life With Grief Podcast)—another deep passion of mine that stemmed from my grief journey and rediscovering what it meant to truly transform your life into something that lights you up.

Chances are you might be going through a difficult time right now, and I want to support and guide you through that however I can!

You're not broken—you're navigating something no one prepared you for...

Does this sound familiar?

You lie awake wondering if this hollow feeling will ever go away.

You put on a brave face during the day, but collapse the moment you're alone.

You've tried therapy, read the books, listened to well-meaning friends—but nothing touches the depth of what you're experiencing.

You don't recognize the person in the mirror anymore and wonder if you'll ever feel like "you" again.

You're tired of people telling you to "move on" when what you really need is someone who understands that grief isn't something you get over—it's something you grow through.

Remember: you're not alone in this. And you're not broken.

explore 1:1 grief coaching

explore 1:1 grief coaching

explore 1:1 SOUL PURPOSE coaching

14-day relief in your grief

Learn more about the types of coaching and help I provide here.

Not sure which type of support might be best for you? I have a lil' four-question quiz to help you along.

Learn more about the types of support I provide here! I offer two types of 1:1 coaching, and two mini-courses.

Not sure which type of support might be best for you? I have a four-question quiz to help you along and find the perfect fit.

micro-moments for transformation

micro-moments for transformation

Several years ago, I was drowning in my own grief.

I had lost my entire immediate family within a year and a half, and I felt like I had lost myself in the process. Taking care of myself was last on my list, sleep was hard to come by, and couldn't imagine a future that didn't feel empty.

Everyone kept telling me I was "so strong" and would "get through this." But I didn't want to just get through it—I wanted to understand why this had happened and how I could possibly find meaning in such devastating loss.

That's when I discovered something that changed everything: grief isn't the enemy of growth—it's the gateway to it.

Through my own healing journey, I developed systems that helped me not just survive my loss, but transform it into the foundation for the most purposeful, authentic life I'd ever lived.

Meet Tara

I can empathize with how you feel, because I've been where you are...

I can empathize with how you feel, because I've been where you are...

I became a Certified Grief Coach and Soul Purpose Coach because I realized this wasn't just about me. There were thousands of women out there feeling exactly what I had felt—lost, alone, and desperate for someone who actually understood.

Now, I help women like you navigate their grief with grace, find their purpose through their pain, and create lives that honor both their loss and their limitless potential for growth.

I became a Certified Grief Coach and Soul Purpose Coach because I realized this wasn't just about me. There were thousands of women out there feeling exactly what I had felt—lost, alone, and desperate for someone who actually understood.

Now, I help women like you navigate their grief with grace, find their purpose through their pain, and create lives that honor both their loss and their limitless potential for growth.

The Life With Grief Podcast is here to help you navigate grief, loss, and the complexities and layers of this process throughout our life.

Check out the podcast

Check out the podcast

"I can't wait until we have our session, I really enjoy them. Talking to you has made such a difference. I knew I needed to talk to someone but made up my mind that I wasn't going to use a counselor. Thank you for being my coach and if for nothing else just listening. I love the "homework" I can tell I am not the same person I was a couple of years ago!!!"

"I can't wait until we have our session, I really enjoy them. Talking to you has made such a difference. I knew I needed to talk to someone but made up my mind that I wasn't going to use a counselor. Thank you for being my coach and if for nothing else just listening. I love the "homework" I can tell I am not the same person I was a couple of years ago!!!"

AMY JARVIS

AMY JARVIS

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Why does this matter? Because it brings you the most unique grief coaching experience you could ask for—whether you work with me through Grief Coaching or Soul Purpose Coaching.

While some coaches only focus on grief alone, in my experience, I've realized there is so much more below the surface that we need to address. It's not just working through that initial period of loss. This is a lifelong journey, our grief lasts a lifetime, and it goes way deeper than most people think. 

WHY WORK WITH ME

You have countless coaches to choose from, but my "secret sauce" is that I combine my diverse training from both Grief Coaching and Soul Purpose Coaching.

You have countless coaches to choose from, but my "secret sauce" is that I combine my diverse training from both Grief Coaching and Soul Purpose Coaching.

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Or, email hello@lossesbecomegains.com to get the conversation started!

Or, email hello@lossesbecomegains.com to get the conversation started!