life with grief membership

welcome to the grief club, my friend. it's a club we didn't ask to be in, but you're not alone in this space.

enjoy action-based coping tools and support ON A MONTHLY BASIS to guide you and help heal your heart after suffering the loss of a loved one.

led by grief coach tara accardo

led by grief coach tara accardo

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I can only begin to empathize and relate to your very specific and unique pain. But my friend, you do not have to do it alone. That's where this membership comes in.

If you're struggling with a loss of a loved one, I can empathize with where you are right now...

Feeling overwhelmed and hurting.

No clear path forward without who you've lost.

Zero light at the end of the tunnel (maybe you can't even find the tunnel, right?).

Simply "existing" but not really living because it's just too hard, painful, or you simply don't want to.

Life has lost its luster.


I experienced devastation, deep, profound pain, regret, feeling lost, unsure of where to turn, feeling like I'll never be okay again, people around me who did not understand me... the list goes on.

Grief is something I know very well. Navigating this new grief-stricken world, I strengthened my emotional, physical, and spiritual connection to myself and others—one day and moment at a time—and developed methods to cope and heal better than I could have imagined.

What if you had a place where you can learn from someone who has been in your shoes? Well, now you've found one! This is where I can help you.

I was my own first student. Both of my parents died from cancer within six months of each other, followed by my sweet 19-year-old fur baby less than a year later. As an only child, my entire immediate family was just... gone.

I've been where you are...

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All you need is support, a proven path, and a community. That’s exactly what you’ll get in the Life With Grief Membership.

If you’re struggling to keep up with the day-to-day life post-loss of a loved one, feel like you’ve lost who you are in the midst of it all, feel overwhelmed with rebuilding and envisioning a life after loss...

Take the guesswork out of your grief

To get to this "better place", we really have to get to know our grief! To understand it and how it affects us mentally, physically, and beyond. It's about understanding that our losses and our grief will always be with us, and it's a part of our story.

Now, it's figuring out how to cope with the day-to-day difficulties, one step at a time, in a way that gives us grace and permission to make our journey exactly what it needs to be.

My grief philosophy

As a Grief Coach, I know all to well that it's not only learning how to cope with the acute, "in your face" grief. It's how to navigate and move forward with the day-to-day complexities of it.

It's understanding that it is a complex process, and it will ebb and flow. And you know what? That's okay! All we can do as grievers is approach it as carefully and thoughtfully as possible, making sure to give ourselves the proper time and energy to do exactly that.

It's approaching our grief with love, and in a way that is holistic and digestible. Because we're already overwhelmed as it is, right?!

what does an "intentional" life with grief really mean?

To be "intentional" with our grief means that we give it the time and attention it deserves. To be open-minded to the grief work, the healing journey, and the things our grief can teach us.

You feel lost, stuck, unable to move forward, in pain, and wondering how you're supposed to move forward from here.

You feel overwhelmed and confused about where to begin coping with your grief, whether you're new on this journey or it has been some time since your loss.

You find it difficult to function on a day-to-day basis. Or, find it hard to relate to others and can't seem to find a solution that has worked.

You need grief support that isn't overwhelming, but is impactful.

Does this sound familiar?

Guidance on how to work through your grief and loss from a Certified Grief Coach that is served in a way that's relatable and trustworthy, and takes the guesswork out of your grief work.

A sense of peace moving forward in life without feeling like you're moving away or forgetting your loved one(s). Feeling as though you have a sense of direction, hope, a zest for life, are able to cope with the day-to-day complexities of grief with confidence, have less stress and anxiety, and more.

A community of like-minded people where you'll feel less alone, where you can participate as much or as little as you're comfortable with. A space where you're surrounded by those that understands where you've been and where you are, and encompasses guidance, support, comfort, and a safe space, but also joy, laughter, and vulnerability.

Consistent, reliable tools, resources, and support that is not overwhelming or intimidating, and is something you'll actually look forward to!

Now envision feeling supported with...

from the Losses Become Gains community on Instagram.

Real grievers who are struggling with their grief on a daily basis, even years later. If any of these sound like you, this is for you. 

Say less... I'm in!

This is why I designed this membership, and these are the types of thoughts, feelings, and emotions Intentional Life After Loss will help you navigate.

It's all about how to address the grief at-hand, but we're transforming your life one step at a time, too! This membership is designed to help you through this adversity.

These are real comments

I can't wait until we have our session, I really enjoy them. Talking to you has made such a difference. I knew I needed to talk to someone but made up my mind that I wasn't going to use a counselor. Thank you for being my coach and if for nothing else just listening. I love the "homework" I can tell I am not the same person I was a couple of years ago!!!

Losses Become Gains Client

Think of this as a cozy corner café with your favorite beverage in-hand!

A safe, welcoming place for a monthly check-in where you can process and talk about your highs and lows, ask me questions, receive in-the-moment coaching on your healing journey, and more.

Most importantly, it's a way to hold other accountable and support each other! Zero pressure to participate. You're welcome to just listen in, too.


A Facebook community is included to build up your support system where you can connect with me and other grievers going through similar losses. I like to call this the "Progress Pod!"

I pop in weekly to answer questions, provide feedback, and encourage you on your journey. I am an anything-but-absent guide and coach to you, and you will find endless support and inspiration in the group!

I love guiding you through this process and holding your hand as you try new things, have beautiful "aha" moments, and grow as a griever!

A Live Q&A and Coaching Call

Digital Downloads & Video Content

Each month I thoughtfully put together a mini digital downloadable toolkit, carefully created just for you.

Depending on the month and what we're digging into, this can be coping tools, exercises, prompts with thought-provoking questions, a video addressing a particular griefy topic... just enough to keep you going, but doesn’t feel like some complicated homework assignment.

My goal each month is to make this very digestible and easily doable! It's all about the impact here.

Membership Details

each month, you'll have access to:

Grief is a lifelong process, and needs to be treated that way. It comes down to turning your pain into purpose—your losses into gains!

But before we can really think about all of that, I thought about every aspect of my healing journey that helped me to get to the point I'm at, and what has been useful and life-changing for the grievers I have coached. When I really took a step back, I realized there was so much more beyond the surface.

So, that's what I want to share with you and what I want this membership to be about! There are so many little nuances and complexities to grief, and they all deserve time and attention. My bread and butter is working through that with you in a way that is impactful, educational, and inspiring.

Supportive Community

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Can you imagine what it’s like to cope with grief from a 

place of peace

and progress

sounds pretty nice, right? here's how we do it:


What if you could spend less time in feeling stuck, uninspired, and living small?

What if you instead harnessed what you're going through and use that energy to build a life for yourself that makes you feel more healed, empowered, and supported as you journey through the grief process?

This monthly membership encompasses an online grief support group (participate as much or as little as you'd like, or work your way up to it!), access to me as your Grief Coach, and watchable/downloadable tools that empower and teach you how to cope with your day-to-day grief.

Because that, my friend, can the most difficult part. After the funeral and the initial weeks after the loss are over, after people slowly stop checking on you, after everyone seems to think you're okay when really, you're still struggling...

The goal is for you to find consistent comfort, support, and guidance in your grief journey in a way that is at your fingertips as you need it.


Asking yourself impactful questions

Teaching ourselves self-compassion

Grieving positively, with hope

Rebuilding relationships and maintaining quality ones

Re-imagining our "new normal"

Leaning into moments of joy

and, here's what we cover... and so much more

Coping with grief, loss, and hardship

Coping with loneliness, confusion, and feeling lost after the death of a loved one

Day-to-day coping tools

Managing anxiety, stress, and fear

Shifting your mindset in your grief

Intentional and healthy living after loss

Wellness, self-care, and somatics in grief

I owe you so much for your help these past few months. I noticed on my fitbit that I have a place for daily meditation and I have actually started utilizing it these past few days and can already see a difference. Thank you, thank you, thank you, for being my coach and helping me figure all of this out. Not quite there but I am not where I was when we first started talking.

— Amy J.

what's special about this?

All for less than the cost of one meal per month...

Everything is available to you immediately upon joining, including a special bonus gift from me to you!

It's the perfect mix of self-paced and guided by your coach—that's me!

Here, I'm not sending you into some course where all of the pressure is on you and you have no support. And, consequently, end up not finishing what you start or feeling left alone in your grief any further.

You have 100% access to me directly, we come together on a live call each month to connect even further, the membership is community-based, and you get action-focused tools thoughtfully created by me to live your absolute best life after loss. You'll feel a difference in your life after your first experience inside the membership!

Have some burning questions?


Don't miss these FAQ's on the membership! If there are any further questions that come to mind that aren't answered on this page, feel free to email me at

Want to chat further?

I'd love to connect with you! I'm more than happy to chat with you and answer any questions or reservations you have about joining, or if you simply want to get to know me better before committing! A 30-minute call is completely complimentary.

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